Understand Women's Nature

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In dating, it looks like women go for men “out of their league” in terms of status, power, wealth, attractiveness and / or intelligence.

It is a psychological tendency created through evolution — or if you don’t believe in evolution, then consider social conditioning.

I think both physiological and sociological aspects apply.

For men, this means that in order to have the best chance of mating with a desirable (somewhat subjective) high value woman, you’ll need to get better to avoid getting bitter.

The theory for why women are like this is that men in socially advantageous positions are able to provide, protect and procreate better than men who won’t have those advantages.

Let’s explore what provide, protect, procreate look like in the modern world.

Don’t get discouraged, later we’ll go into what you, Joe Blow, can do to increase your value in all areas even if you don’t currently or naturally excel in any.

Provide

At a base level, when a man is able to provide for a woman and their potential family, she won’t have to worry about living under a bridge wondering where her next meal will come from.

At an advanced level, this may look like comfortable —or even luxurious — living accommodations; abundant food on the table; reputable or private schools and higher education for his children etc.

Protect

At a base level, when a man is able to protect a woman and his potential family, she won’t worry about being raped in an alley (or under that bridge).

At an advanced level, this can look like being able to pay the bills so they’re not going to be living under said bridge.

Procreate

At a base level, when a man is (or appears) healthy, the woman trusts that her offspring will have the greatest survival and success rate.

At an advanced level, their children will excel in multiple areas of life and her ego will get stroked at the PTA meetings.

Like it or not, women notice and are consciously or unconsciously attracted to the obvious evidence of the qualities.

That’s why men who have status, power, wealth, attractiveness and intelligence are going to get noticed first.

Now, let’s explore the base needs that status, power, wealth, attractiveness and intelligence plays in how women — unconsciously or not — evaluate men.

Women's Basic Needs

Status / Power

When people respect and admire a man, he automatically has advantages that play into the provide and protect factors.

Fair or not, people with high status or in positions of power are viewed with a biased esteem that opens doors for them.

Wealth

This one is obvious. With money, there is no living under a bridge and there are a host of other advantages and conveniences money can and does buy.

Attractiveness

The reality about attractiveness is that evidence of health is the biggest influence for women, if considered solely in an of itself.

What I mean is that, in general, a short, fit man is more attractive than a taller, obese man.

(Remember, we’re not factoring in status, power, wealth or intelligence.)

Even though women do often have non typical “types” they’re interested in, there are many factors to health that affect perceived attractiveness at a base level for all women.

Intelligence

An intelligent man can get a couple out of a tricky life situation. At least, that’s the assumption a woman makes.

She also assumes he can impress others in social settings and potentially provide sage wisdom on how to advance their well-being as a family.

Most of these perceptions aren’t consciously created by women, they’re simply ingrained and it doesn't even matter if having children is not a goal.

How to Make Women's Nature Work for You

I like to focus on what you can do to get what you want.

It’s your choice to learn, practice, stumble, get up and grow. Or to give up.

Women are looking for the highest value man they can get, the sooner men get over this reality, the better they’ll feel.

So, what if you don’t have status, power, wealth, good looks or intelligence?

You can work to improve each of those areas in ways you:
1. are capable of
2. would value even if choosing to remain single

Side effects include:
1. increased self-respect
2. increased respect from others (includng women)

When you take action toward improving your life for you, you will feel better instead of bitter.

You have choices.

You can choose to pursue (not chase) women or not and you’ll be just fine, because you validate yourself, so you don’t need anyone else to, including women.

xo AJ

p.s. This is a much bigger topic than I can fit in a 13 min video but hopefully you get the big picture and aren't too dissuaded by it or by women.

Disclaimer: Anna is not a licensed therapist or professional psychologist. You are responsible for your own actions and the consequences thereof. Obey the law.

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