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Let's talk about self esteem

Let's talk about self esteem Self esteem is very tricky. We often tend to pin ourselves into anguish because of who we are without even noticing the way people even think highly of us. People are becoming insecure about themselves and so they portray this unrealistic lifestyle while the true message behind that is a cry for acceptance. If you can't accept yourself who can accept you? Today it's all about 5 way to help you build up that self esteem.

1. Affirm positivity- You must have faith in your cause. You're an amazing person and no one needs to remind you of that. Get linked up with positive affirmation samples throughout YouTube and on the web, stay away from negative energy or people who hold u back with negative comments and confess these positive affirmations into your system. Grow with it!!!


2. No comparison - No one is better than you unless you allow it, with effort and focus and faith..you can achieve what you want. Have faith in your journey, I really get upset when a couple of people tell me about comparing themselves to others. We are all running a different race, some may be jogging, some may be walking, some may be running and you might be crawling...the important thing is you reaching the finish line. We are all different, comparison is just a way of stealing your own joy!

3. Know yourself - Embrace and accept who you are. There is none like you. You have a unique energy that represents the very core of your existence. Have a relationship with yourself and get to know your capabilities and your flaws and expand and develop yourself. There's nothing as attractive as self confidence being linked to knowing oneself.

4. Break the habit of pleasing people - I used to be a victim of this, always saying what people wanted to hear and doing what they wanted at my cost. I'm not saying you shouldn't do stuff for anyone, I'm saying you should do you, be real. I get it, we sometimes please people because we fear rejection or being alone but hey, someone who is meant for you will stay no matter what. No matter how hard you try you can't please everyone and just because you please everyone doesn't guarantee that everyone would like you!

5. Forgive yourself - No one is perfect! We all make mistakes and that's a proving ground for us to mature and learn from it. I'm not saying we should be making mistakes but hey, when you make them...forgive yourself, let go. No one needs to go through the pain of being bitter about oneself.


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